Jude and I have a father and son activity that we have enjoyed since he was a toddler - fishing. Part of our fishing tradition is to eat breakfast at an old truck stop cafe on our way to the lake. It is a classic, western, cafe. We sat in the vinyl-backed chairs, ordered coffee, breakfast and talked about the fish we were going to catch.
I took a moment to look around the cafe and began to notice the people around me. A young Hispanic woman was cutting the food for her five-year-old daughter. They sat together, and the mother had a tired look in her eyes, yet she looked at her daughter with pure love. Directly behind us was a family of 12 smiling, laughing, and pointing at the menu. One son wore a t-shirt from a local synagogue, and the other wore a Santa's hat.
Next to our table a Native American family of 7 was talking. They had that graceful presence found in native people. One of their grandchildren was running around the table poking his small finger into the back of his grandfather and laughing. The grandmother wore her hair in the classic style. She warmed the coffee cup with her slender hands and smiled a soft smile.
Off in the other room, a bunch of old Anglo cowboys slapping one another on the back. One was attempting to text on his phone, and another was scratching his head while studying the eggs on his plate. All of them trying to tell bad jokes to the waitress. The waitress was slinging coffee around. She was in her 70’s and had dyed her hair a bright orange.
I sat in this old cafe surrounded by people of all races and colors. All of them are miraculous and stunning. All extraordinary children of God and they are my brothers and sisters. My beautiful family in God and we are connected.
I pointed this out to Jude, and he looked around, and we both sat in silence for a few moments and smiled. As we begin this new year, let us look upon one another as beautiful, magnificent family members. We are brothers and sisters who are blessed to share this place called earth for a short time. Let us pray to embody this in our hearts and lives. We need one another and let us seek to connect with one another.
You are in my prayers as we end this year and begin a hopeful year in the name of Jesus Christ.